Summary of *er hem* common topic

Firstly, there are two things going to be brought up, which is what guys need to know about girls and what girls need to know about guys (revised of course). Have Fun.


FOR GUYS to know:

» Don't force her to do anything

» Be caring in terms of actions and thoughts (Use hugs, soft cuddles, smses, emails or even small presents to express your care and concern for her needs, mentally and emotionally)

» Compliment her in a honest way, dun lie

» Comfort her when she cries

» Lighten her up when she emo or piss, but refrain from talking too much

» Lend her your shoulder anytime she wants

» Be on time during datings, punctuality really matters

» Its good to treat girls but not too often, or she becomes over-reliant on your pocket

» Girls hate it when guys ignore them

» Even if you have no intentions, you still have to listen to their complains about anything and everything, it shows you care

» Be fair when treating friends and girlfriends, don't lie or exaggerate to impress

» Be tolerant to her needs, sometimes she just want your attention

» Be a gentleman and not ruffian

» Don't flirt around, if she truly likes you, she will be disappointed at your behaviour

» Love her solely with your heart, if she is really that good for you to do that, you will feel much more appreciated.


FOR GIRLS to know:

» Don't force him to do anything

» Be appreciative in what the guy did for you

» Comfort him if he is feeling down, if he cries, let him be

» Try to leave him alone when he is piss, refrain from conversing

» Never demand anything, his love should not be taken for granted

» Guys hate it when girls ignore them

» Be fair when treating friends and boyfriends, don't lie or exaggerate to impress

» Never disgrace him in front of friends

» Don't give him the "2 people in water who will you save" question, its dumb

» Guys are not superman, they cannot always be with you and neglect others, be understanding

» Guys are also sensitive, try not to touch the sensitive parts of him

» 撒娇 is a good way of saying that you need him, but never be too annoying

» Love him solely with your heart, if he is really that good for you to do that, you will feel much more appreciated.



LASTLY, "Sorry seems to be the hardest word" but it is the most powerful word in never-ending quarrels. Use sparingly and

忍一时，风平浪静，退一步，海阔天空
忍多时，大风大浪，退多步，跌进海里

so never ever let only the guy/girl say because in a quarrel, neither side is correct nor wrong and while a sorry helps a relationship, overdose of sorries fails it.








The blogmaster would like to thank Dota forum (supposed for gaming but dunno why have this), Vanessa, himself and some other sources (which preferred to be unnamed) for the above contents.